You probably do, even it if might not look like it. Let’s take a look at why this may be and what we can do about it.

By the way I’m an expert in coaching middle aged bozos cos I am one, get in touch if you need professional help!

Midlife health for men rarely unravels overnight, though it almost always feels that way when it does. One morning you’re fine, the next you’re standing on the bathroom scales wondering where the last decade went (and hopefully you can still actually see your own penis), and why your knees hurt going downstairs.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

“Men in their 40s and 50s very rarely neglect their health because they don’t care,” explains Dr Michael Zemenides, a men’s health specialist at The Wellington Hospital in the UK. “It’s more often because they’re exhausted, time-poor and constantly firefighting work, family and financial pressures.”

Sound familiar?

“The problem,” says Dr Zemenides, “is that by the time symptoms appear, we’re often already late.”

Poor sleep. Stress. Aches and pains that weren’t there before. Weight that appeared from nowhere and refuses to leave. A fatigue so persistent you’ve started to think it’s just who you are now. These aren’t signs of ageing. They’re signs of a body sending messages that aren’t being read.

Part of the problem is structural. Unlike women, who tend to develop routine contact with GPs through contraception, pregnancy and check-ups, most men only see a doctor when something is visibly broken. That unfamiliarity with the system creates delay. And delay allows the rot to set in.

“In your 20s, you’re pretty much bulletproof,” says Dr Zemenides. “But by 30, subtle signs start to show — poorer sleep, slower metabolism, less time to train, creeping weight gain. These changes feel minor, but your body is moving towards a tipping point.”

Over 40 and the slide accelerates. Over 50 and it’s all a bit avalanche-y.

“Men tell themselves, ‘I’m just busy’ or ‘this is just what getting older feels like,’” he adds. “These things get normalised. That’s the danger.”

The answer isn’t a dramatic transformation plan or a six-week challenge or a cabinet full of supplements. It’s catching things early and rebuilding consistent habits — boring, sustainable, unglamorous ones.

For cyclists, the bike is a brilliant reset button — heart health, fitness, mood, fresh air, the particular sanity that comes from two hours away from a screen. But it shouldn’t be the only tool in the box.

Ride regularly rather than banking everything on one heroic weekend smash-up. Studies show that cycling reduces aging in middle age but these benefits only come if you’re doing something like 7000k over a year. My advice is to try to ride almost daily, even if just for 30 mins indoors.

Add strength work twice a week — your joints and bones will thank you in ten years.

Streeeeeeeetch.

Take sleep as seriously as training, because that’s exactly what it is.

Cut back on carbs, esp the bad ones. More protein and fibre is a good thing. Take Omega 3, add magnesium too.

Get the basic checks done — blood pressure, cholesterol, blood sugar — because none of them take long and ignorance here is genuinely not bliss.

Midlife isn’t a slow fade. It can be the point where you build the strongest, healthiest version of yourself. Trust me, I did and I have helped many others do the same.

But only if you show up for it.